Talking to my self!?

Do you ever feel like the only person you talk to is yourself??? I don't mean in the psychotic way but realistically we all do it; we all talk to ourself. As a stay at home mom living in a city with no really close friends I feel as though my best friend right now is myself. I miss hanging out and having fun with friends. I don't feel like I have that one person to talk to about everything and anything about to. Hmm will I ever? I don't know. My hubby works a lot and I know I probably bug him a lot during the day calling him all the time but I what else am I suppose to do? I need another adult to talk to. I want to start having fun as an adult. I want to have fun with my hubby again. We need to have fun couple adult time! Ok well I'm rambeling... Done for now... Night

My babies...

Wow I can't believe it... Emily is 3 weeks old already and my other two babies are getting so big. Zach is going to be 5 in exactly 3 weeks and I just can't believe it! Maddison will be 2 in April... I can believe that one onlhy because the way she's acting. Wow how fast time goes by... look at all my babies as babies... they are all so beautiful! I know that life is always changing and growing and getting older but that is and always has been my hardship in life and thats change. I have always hated change. I know it's because of how much my life was always changing when I was a kid so even now as an adult i have a hard time with it. I just need to enjoy every moment with all of them.

BABY EMILY IS HERE!!!

Well on February 4th I went and saw the midwife(MW)... I was dilated to a 3-4cm and was 50% effaced. Later that evening at around 7pm I began to have contractions and by 10:30 the hubby and I were on our way to the hospital. When we had arrived the MW checked me and I was still the same but my contractions had died down... So we walked the hall for about an hour or so and it helped me efface more but I wasn't any more dilated. So we came home. As soon as we were leaving the hospital the contractions started happening again but I shrugged them off. By the time we got home and through the door I began having contractions about 2-3 mins apart. We stayed home for about an hour and a half and then we finally went back to the hospital. It was now 3:30am February 5th. While I was changing my clothes the MW Julie admitted me to the hospital since my contractions were so close. Once in my room they got me all set up and checked I had dilated to a 5cm and by 4:45 Julie offered to break my water! So we did and within about 4 contractions little miss Emily's head cam down and within a half an hour she was here! Emily Lake Lopez was born February 5, 2011 @ 5:16am weighing 6lbs 11oz.

We have been home now for a couple of weeks and getting used to having 3 kids is a lot harder than I thought it was going to be. I am trying to exclusively breastfeed little miss Emily which is challenging because I feel glued to the couch and a little lazy because I'm not getting anything else done. Emily is a cluster feeder (she never stops!) and won't take a pacifier but she is beautiful and I just love her to pieces. My 22 month old Maddison is being stubborn and in to everything which we expected but at the same time she wants to hold the baby all the time. I think in a way she thinks that Emily is a live baby doll. My son Zach who is almost 5 is my big helper. He gets Maddi out of things she shouldn't be when I tell him to and loves that he can hold Emily without the help of anybody. Wow how life has changed having 3 kids. I can't wait tell breastfeeding gets easier so that I can get back to our normal life and get everyone back on a schedule (of some sort). But for now I am just glad that my new little girl Emily Lake is here and that she's healthy!

Discomfort...

Wow what I wouldn't give to just be done being pregnant. At 35 weeks pregnant I have been miserable for most of this pregnancy. It has gone from the constant nausea from 6 weeks till almost 20 weeks then I was OK for a couple of weeks. Then the pinched nerves in my back started and oh was that just so much fun and really hasn't gone away but its not as bad as it was. Now I have heartburn / acid reflux extremely bad and am just physically done.  I know it's too early for my little girl to come out yet but if I was to have her right now I would be ecstatic! I want to be able to walk, bend over, hold my other 2 kids without feeling smashed, sleep with very little discomfort.  Don't get me wrong I know what lies ahead isn't going to be simple. A stay at home mom of 3 is no easy task but having a body that doesn't feel disabled will be so worth it! Well enough complaining...off to do some more planning for the big day... February 9th is just around the corner!

Excitement and Nervousness

Tonight I was sitting on the floor in much discomfort and realized all of the sudden that in six weeks our new baby would be considered full term and could come at any time...eeks! I have nothing, and I mean nothing set up for this new baby.  I mean a lot of things are still kinda out. The receiving blankets are in a drawer, boppy is ready to go, bouncer is out (but needs batteries). But I haven't put any clothes out since I don't have a dresser yet. I will either put up the playpen with bassinet up or I will get the bassinet back from our family friend. I don't have any newborn diapers yet or an outfit to bring the baby home in either! Oh my goodness what to do and when to do it. With Christmas fastly approaching I feel so closed off. Plus no baby shower or anything so I don't have anything really to wait on. OK next week I will begin tackling the gotta do's for the new baby... Wow how fast it is coming baby Emily will be here in the blink of an eye!

$$$Money$$$

You know money is all that life seems to be about. We start at a young age learning everything we can. We go to school to learn so that way we can go to college to learn oh but what your really learning for is so you can get that job/career so what can you do? oh make money! Why do we make money? Well for one so we can sustain our life by buying food and having a place to live. We then have bills of all kinds from electricity to car payments to health insurance. So we work so hard to have pay all these bills but then we have no more money. So what do we do in turn we work harder longer hours so we can make more money. But what actually happens is once we do the longer hours we spend that money even faster or pay more bills. It becomes this never ending circle. You know when we are kids all we can dream about is becoming an adult but as children we can not grasp the enormity of what being an "adult" really means.

Now you may be wondering why I am writing about this and its because here we are in the holiday season getting ready to celebrate Christmas. Which in our modern culture isn't about Christ being born anymore it's about buying objects for those we love and the more the better. We are that family that lives paycheck to paycheck even though my husband works his butt off every day just so we can pay all of those mary-go-round bills and have food on the table. I wish I could help him more. But right now being home with our children is financially the best for us. Childcare is so expensive why work?! I guess really I'm just frustrated with the way everything is. We are always told from a young age that nothing is fair and man is that an understatement. Well at least I can vent for FREE!

Craziness!

Wow its the holidays already! Yesterday was Thanksgiving and of course something went wrong. The night before our hot water heater blew so we haven't had hot water for 2 days. Finally this morning our landlord came and put a new one in!!! Why does something always have to go wrong around the holidays?? Well since we didn't have any hot water we went to my husbands family for dinner back in our home town about an hour and a half or so away. It was nice just not what I was planning. After we left there we stopped by the hospital and saw our newborn niece Skyy. She was born on Wednesday at 7lbs 5oz and 19 1/4 inches.  She is a cutie but looks nothing like he older brother.

Now we need to gear up for Christmas! And its unfortunate but I have no desire for it to be here.  I want to be though. Maybe its because I am pregnant and I don't have any other family around so I don't feel like I need to. But I do! I have 2 kids who deserve the world and deserve a winter wonderland. So I am going to get over my bah humbug and get to decorating this week! To me holidays are so stressful trying to satisfy everyone going here and being there! Now that I have 2 kids and one on the way I feel like I shouldn't have to go everywhere but if we don't we are disappointing a lot of friends and family! So I need to jut suck it up and deal with it I guess. I know in my head that's not what I should have to do but in my heart its what I feel like I have to do. Thank God after Christmas I am just staying home and going to get ready for our new bundle of joy to arrive. Our new little girl is due February 9 and I can't wait. I am very much done being pregnant and I just really want to see this little girl. Miss Emily Lake is going to be a joy in our life and can already tell! Well I hope everyone has a great holiday time! Take care talk to you all soon.

Co-op Pre-K

I was lucky enough to have met some very nice women who have allowed me to join there co-op pre-k with them this year. So now once a week zach gets a little play time and learning time with some really great kids! He loves it! He is very ready to go to school and can't wait for kindergarten! Yesterday was my first day to have the kids at our house and they had a great time! Can't wait to do it again!

Summer Fun...

Well this summer is going to a fun one... I am going to start trying to sell some bows at some softball games which should be interesting... But the best part is my son is going to start playing t-ball for the first time... We are so excited! Bow making is going good just look...

Its been awhile....

Well in the past few weeks not to much has gone on. My daughter turned 1 adn I really can't believe it. This past year has just ran past me. We didn't get to do much for her birthday we just stayed home and I made some cupcakes for her. I was really hoping to have a party for her so she could show off her new tutu but I will just have to wait a little while. I'm thinking I will use it for her next pictures that we get done. The tutu is so cute. Its rose, ivory, yellow, and a teal green. Its very springy. Well thats all for now. Talk to you soon!